What would you do?

Don't be surprised if you see a new user going by the name of baz_92 in the next few days after a suggestion like that :smiley-laughing002:

 

* his missus then tweet a pic like this guy

 

Take some * and furiously * over the wedding outfits and cake

 

* into the wedding cake..............make it nice n' moist n' creamy for the bride taking her first bite

 

Then make some witty reply about how it feels to know your new wife only lasted an hour be faithful before taking another mans load

 

Still heard nothing back. To make matters worse none of the family (apart fromt he ma) are now talking to me. I said to my ma last night that when I see the * on sunday (thats if he even comes over now) I was going to knock the * out of him.

I hate to say it but I think it's time for me to wash my hands of my family. Mind they probably think the same thing.

I'm over not being invited to the stag do. The thing that has hurt the most is everyone acting like they knew nothing about it. If they had just said to me look we don't want you there for such and such a reason it would have been much better. Sure, it would have hurt but not having an explanation hurts a whole lot worse.

I cancelled my hotel booking for the wedding as I won't be going now. I think there has been to much damage done now. I had booked 4 rooms for the family to stay in for the night of the wedding so now they will have to sort out their own *. I'm passed the point of caring.

I think I am going to book a holiday over the time of the whole wedding because I don't think I would be able to stomach all their fake * happy families routine

 

If he hasn't got the decency to explain whats going on despite you asking, then yeah, wash your hands of him. To be honest, I wouldn't go on Sunday. Go out somewhere. Your mum doesn't deserve the aggro.

You're paying out for this wedding and your being made a fool of. Cars, hotels and someone's ticket and no one can look you in the eye and say what's happening. Ditch it.

 

Good on you for telling them to GTF and not going, and for not paying for their stuff either. Quite right.

The only thing is, unless I've missed something, you haven't got the slightest idea why you're being frozen out? That'd drive me to the edge, not knowing why your family are being *. Is there any way you can try and speak to your brother, and then you call tell him and his wife to get to *?

Btw do they still think some of it is being paid for by you? Surely if they do that requires either A) them to talk to you to check everything's sorted, or B) them to just turn up and assume you've paid in. Excellent boot to the baws opportunity for you either way.

 

You've done the right thing mate, knowing that probably doesn't help ease the pain of what they've done to you though. No one deserves to be treated like that

Hopefully you have a blast on holiday though and forget all about them.

 

Aye. Would be priceless them turning up to the hotel before to be told "what booking? We have nothing in that name" :smiley-laughing002:

Cancel everything you have booked mate, even if you do lose a deposit. Better than being taken for a mug.

 

I wonder if the OP turns into the most annoying, raging homosexual pervert alcoholic, drunken troublemaker when he takes a drink........hence why he's no gettin an invite to the stag?

 

I'm puzzled as to why you haven't been invited tbh.

You have been to the dam before with your Bro and you've been paying a * load for the wedding. I can't see any possible reason for this???

* puzzled

 

You and me both pal.

 

Aye, 'tis a strange one indeed.

I wonder if they have just took it for granted that (maybe if he is prone to quite easily stick his hand in his pocket) that he will be booking his own flights etc, and that they just assume he will be going?

 

I would be cancelling everything you booked for them mate, and not saying a word. If you need to take the hit on the deposit, it would definitely be worth it in my opinion. With a bit of luck, the rooms you cancel will be gone, along with every other room in the hotel come the day of the wedding also.

 

Does he really want to be an Indian giver though?

He might seem an even biggr * for promising to pay for stuff?