What would you do?

Thats bullshit mate and the family for keeping it quiet sucks too, family can be utter *. No other way than to tackle it than asking him outright * sitting for the day with that in your head or even the time in the lead up to it.

 

A bit of a long shot I guess, but they wouldn't have anything planned in secret for you, would they? Is it your birthday soon?

Them all acting as if they know nothing about it is really strange.

 

Wishful thinking mate but it wouldn't be possible. I would have to arrange for someone to look after the business etc while I am away so it's not as if they could go ask my boss for the time off

 

You had to spoil it by going and getting all sensible. :icon_mrgreen:

 

You think? 'Surprise you've been coming all along' type of thing. Why do that when any sane person would know it would cause friction?

 

My birthday is in June mate so no chance unfortunately. Plus I can't even remember the last time one of them bought me a present

 

No offence mate but you are being mugged off by your brother. The sooner you say something the better imo.

Just casually say something like "what time are we leaving for the coach/ferry/airport" and you'll know.

 

Celtic Warrior is certain to be along to give you a hug soon.

 

If they're actually all going without you I'd * the wedding off and not go.

* them.

 

I have been sitting on it since last night mate when I found out. Didn't sleep a wink last night for * sake. To be honest I am having second thoughts about even going to the wedding at all now

 

hmmm tough one, i'd just get the bride to be pumped whilst hes away if I was you. Or I guess you could just ask him straight out.

 

It's clearing upsetting/annoying you - especially as you've paid for cars, dresses and someone else's ticket.

Think you know that you need to ask, as awkward as it might seem.

 

Take a load of selfies and get the lads in the Graphics section to photoshop you into parties with * *, buckets of weed, a fan blowing cocaine into the crowd and a random midget, then when he comes back from amsterdam show him the pics and ask if he had a good time.

 

If your not going to confront him then send him a strongly worded letter.

 

It sounds terrible mate, especially when you're bailing folk out with money.

I'd * the wedding off and tighten the purse strings with the *.

 

What about all the food he's paid for

 

I'm starting to think that myself. No doubt I will get made out to be the * though

 

Change the booking for the wedding cars to rickshaws with no drivers.

 

Or just change the date:icon_mrgreen: