Relationship Problems and Advice

Its a tale of unrequited love unfortunately.

 

Well I got the abuse from * last night.

My ex was texting me random stuff all day yesterday because he was on the drink. At one point he text me saying 'pints go down easier than knickers'. It got worse. He phoned me about 11 because I had been ignoring him, called me a 'paranoid clown' and told me to f*** off. So I hung up on him. He phoned back and I made the mistake of answering again. He kept saying 'you ok doll' and I just kept saying yes. Then he said 'take your attitude to some other mug who will listen'. So I hung up again, turned my phone on silent and went to sleep.

Woke up this morning to umpteen missed calls, and 9 text messages telling me he wishes I was dead, I've to f*** off, I'm a * etc. More messages saying I've to f*** off and die. Then some messages saying he's going to get arrested again, and that 'the fenians' were chasing him going to beat him up. I know this is not true, because he did the same when we were together looking for attention. Luckily enough my phone was on silent and I completely ignored him all night, so quite proud of myself for that.

And this is not just his way of reacting to us splitting up, he's always been like that. Everytime he got drunk I had to listen to that *. Its bad enough I had to put up with that when we were together, I DO NOT have to listen to that anymore. So relieved now that I walked out.

PS I'm not a complete *, I text his brothers girlfriend this morning to make sure he didnt get arrested etc, she said he phoned her to come to her house for a party! (she lives with her parents and was in bed for work) so she phoned her bf, his brother, and he went out looking for him and got him.

Guys a complete looooooser!!!

 

If you don’t mind me asking, what ages are you both?

The abuse he’s bombarded you with sounds like something a 15 year old would come out with… a Hunnish one at that.

What’s with the * stuff? :confused1:

 

Oft he sounds like a complete roaster. Well done for ignoring him, I'd keep the messages to show to the police if he keeps annoying you.

 

I'm 25, he's 27.

He's a right bitter *. When he's drunk anyway. Got done their last game of season for religiously aggravated breach of the peace, breach of the peace, and inciting a riot. But because he pleaded guilty to the religiously aggravated breach of the peace, they dropped the other two charges and he got a fine.

He only says stuff like that to try and annoy me. As bad as it sounds, I'm used to it now, so its like water off a ducks back. I will be keeping the text messages though, just in case.

 

It’s bizarre to think you could still harbour feelings for such a reprehensible creature, or indeed have any in the first place.

It should be obvious that you’re better off without. And it’s not like you can blame being young and naive…. you’re not 16.

I don’t understand your mentality.

Why are you so distraught about breaking up with such an individual?

 

Your boyfriend or ex-boyfriend was, is and always will be a * *.

'the fenians' were chasing him going to beat him up - pity that wasn't true.

Without sounding a bit harsh - get a grip of yourself. The guy is obviously a * tool and you should be more upset about losing some of your possessions, rather than this waste of space.

Plenty of people out there who will treat you proper and there will be someone out there who will make you feel good about yourself..........get out and find them

 

Yeah I know all this. I know he's a complete waste of space and a total clown. Thing is, when I was with him, he was all sweetness and light the next morning, so I just ignored it time and time again.

Now I'm not with him anymore, all I'm getting is the bad stuff and not seeing any of the good stuff anymore, so its easier to open my eyes to the fact that he's a complete waste of * time. Up until now, I've only been remembering the good times, and missing those.

So I'm kinda glad he did that last night. It reminded me why I left him in the first place. And gave me the kick up the * to finally move on once and for all, and forget about him.

Its all go from here

 

Well.....at least he's shown his true colours now - time to move on so best of luck

Oh......and did you know that it's a talkceltic rule that all those who unviel themselves as a female poster has to put a photo up :icon_mrgreen:

 

He's never hid his true colours, it was me that decided to ignore them. But aw well, at least I've come to my senses now!

Erm..... NO!

 

Well at least you know now :icon_mrgreen:

 

Anyone fancy a * ?

 

You have issues young Padmill

 

Who?

 

I think he's mixing you up for some wee gay * that used to post on here :icon_mrgreen:

 

Well that's alright then.....

 

Jesus *! Find someone who thinks more of you than they do themselves - who is not happy unless you are happy, and who will stand by you and stick up for you no matter what the circumstances - bit difficult I know when you're only 25 or whatever, and listening to all these fkn weans who think that letting a bird fart in bed with them and not boaking means they are in love...

 

So I got very muy bueno news. So there is this girl who I have liked for a long time. Back in either October I had asked her out and she said no because she wasn't want to date yet (but she liked me)....So fast forward to December, Also my big problems was I was not suggesting things she likes (I love the city she does not for example). So I asked her if she wanted to go out with me to a vineyard and a nice restaurant here in the Virginia Countryside, she said YES!!!!. Soo right now I am very happy and will be getting reservations in the coming days!!

 

Sorry mate, but you do not belong here. This thread is solely for us, the lonely, desperate and sad ones.


But I do hope you have a good time!