Relationship Problems and Advice

Don't worry mates, you ain't living in a place where the most uptight and stuck-up dwell.

Hope is still alive for you.

 

Nice one lad.hope all goes well,sure it will

 

Thanks. Funny thing is you would never see me at a vineyard haha. Should be awesome and can't wait!!

 

Guess what happened that made me commit to getting over my loser of an ex-girlfriend?

SHE THREATENED TO KILL ME

There's gonna be a lot of confusion flowing through your head right now, but know that someone who talks like that to you in any state of mind whatsoever, does not respect you and is not deserving of your respect.

This is a victory fusion.

 

Being alone and being sad are very different things

 

That is of course very true!

 

Not really a problem, and not really needing advice. But it's annoying me.
Met a girl. Went on a couple of dates. Everything seemed ok, she seemed really interested and was actually arranging the third date and commenting on how she was pretty gutted not to see me. That was like 2 weeks ago.
But in the last week, been really quite distant. I know there's other factors like work, just moved, * time of year, stay quite a bit away.
The thing that's annoying me though is.......before the distance I was really unsure about it all.
Anyway, grievance is aired. Needed to get that off my mind.

 

yh, you seemed to be pretty * by the time of year as well...

 

Yeah I think so. I'm not a shy person, I'm fairly confident in talking to girls and stuff but in truth, * scared of rejection. Thats why I wait it for ages until the girl makes the move or makes it proper obvious that she likes me.

 

And now we get to the heart of the problem
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Rejection is something that we're all afraid of

Last girl who gave me her number, I texted her and she ignored me after exchanging a few, said to me the next time I saw her that her phone "doesn't work outside of wifi."

I wanted to laugh at that so * badly but it was already awkward as *. Can't get much worse than a lie that is meant to obviously be a lie when being rejected

It gets easier. Most girls WILL reject you. Paraphrasing the great Mr. Gretzky, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Only thing to do it ask. No harm in it really.

 

Aye, it's *. Plus we both work odd hours.
Always seems to be Xmas and new year I end up seeing someone or end up in a relationship.ha.
I need a summer romance.

 

Hahahahaha!

It was a spelling mistake, I promise.

 

Ack rejection does not matter one wee bit mate, happens to everycunt at one stage or another. Just say * it and try not to care, sometimes really works to your advantage.

 

Great moto!

 

Marie

Just had a text from Mrs Wrigley, she is on her Christmas Do, some of the girls have decided to book into a hotel in town and she wont be home.

Should I be worried, I am really, might drive down and find her, or should I trust her

Cheers
Wrigley

 

I know your post is to Marie, but here is my tuppence worth!

Ouch..tricky one.Nothing you can really do mate except to trust her, unless you have some reason not to!



PS..i dont think whatever you do/dont do, you will be doing much sleeping tonight!

 

Why should you worry, its the 21st today worlds ending anyway.

But if it doesn't end. I would be very worried.

 

If her works night out is far from home fair enough

If the shoe was on the other foot how would she react