Relationship Advice thread

I searched n couldn't see one so maybe its time to have one on teh forum :icon_mrgreen: feel free to get your problems and dilemmas up too

So my story goes as follows. This chick was like me best mate and we used to have a wee bit of fun n * every now and then, never got into anything serious. We were close and that we just never spoke about our feelings i suppose. Then she got in a relationship with this * (he is actually a * its not jealousy) and i stopped talking to her for a while about a month or so because of this. she'd always ask why n i'd just rubbish it off saying "if your happy im happy n *" just not telling her how i actually felt. But we've been seeing each other alot more recently again we speak every day and as usual when she comes round we'll have some fun when we really shouldn't. I'd ask her why shes doing this when shes apparently with this other guy and she'll say "it feels right" what ever that means

Anyway i actually told her the truth why i stopped seeing her and speaking to her for a while because it hurt me and i had proper feelings for her. It was easier for me to just not speak to her i suppose. After i told her this she was in pieces. I felt terrible she was saying * like "how could i be so stupid" n * like that.

Anyway im not really sure what im hoping to achieve by writing this up like but yeah i dunno. Im in two minds whether i should go out n chase n get this chick. Theres no doubt in my mind our feelings are mutual ya know but we're best mates i dunno how it would work

 

On each other?

 

She's going between you and another guy, what I take from that is she loves the boaby. You got her number?

 

* off ya manky *

 

She is a *.

Leave her alone.

 

run for *,s sake

 

Have a baby or the problem solver as I call it.

 

Not a chance

 

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Spend the night together in the Bellgrove hotel and she won't look at anyone else again.

 

:smiley-laughing002:

I have experienced that scenario it's a * nightmare :smiley-laughing002:

 

People can make mistakes in life.

Maybe that is her realising she shouldn't have gotten into the other relationship.

Don't get your hopes up but see how it goes from here. If she has meant what she has said she will probably end it with the other guy.

 

shes a *, get her tae **** :icon_mrgreen:

 

If she's like messing around behind someone's back then be careful. If she's done it to him she might just fancy doing it with you

 

If she's in a relationship and having "fun" with you as well then she's a hoe, Use your big head and not your small head..

If you end up with her, you'll always wonder who else she's having "fun" with..

 

Not worth the head *. Do * all - avoid * her to.

 

Threesome

 

If you haven't already, you need to make it clear that she's gotta decide between you and this other fella. Don't make it sound like you're giving her no choice but to choose between the two of you, it might not go down well, but hint at it in a round-about way. That other *'ll soon be offski :smiley-laughing002:

If the feelings are mutual as you say, then it can work, but only if you two talk to each other and are honest with each other. If you bottle things up and don't tell her, she won't know how you feel at all. Likewise, she probably bottled up her feelings for you when she went off with that *. Have the discussion with her, and if it's meant to be (which it sounds it is) then it should all just flow naturally good luck mate