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Is it ok to go for a drink with a married women

Discussion in 'TalkCeltic Pub' started by Miles Platting, Mar 13, 2011.

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  1. Miles Platting Irish Mancunian Gold Member

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    without her husband knowing, just wondering if I should tell him, its only social I dont want to nail her
     
    Miles Platting, Mar 13, 2011
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  2. KRS-1888 Scott La Rock

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    If you found out your wife went for a drink with some guy,or if some guy asked your permission,what would your reaction be?I know what mines would be anyway.
     
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  3. mygirlmaria

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    Need more information before i could say.Why are you wanting to go for a social drink?How close to him/her are you just now?For starters.
     
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    Honestly i dont think it
     
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  5. Buster Gold Member Gold Member

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    My thoughts exactly. :47:

    Don't know if your married or have a girlfriend but do they know or are you not telling them either?
     
    Buster, Mar 13, 2011
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  6. Spring Time Gold Member Gold Member

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    If it's only social why not make it a foursome?

    She can take her husband & you can take your wife.

    That way there will be no misunderstanding:50:

    Hope this helps:rolleyes:
     
    Spring Time, Mar 13, 2011
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    I gauge from this you know the fella? Either way it is completely inappropriate to go for a social drink with a married woman unless it is in a group imo
     
    nfg3001, Mar 13, 2011
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    No, completely not OK. Imagine you were the other guy and you found out your wife went out for a drink with some other man, worse still if it was one of your mates (dunno if this is the case or not) - you would want to rip [your] head off.
     
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  9. blackfish Screaming from beneath the waves...

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    are you Stan Collymore?

    sounds like you know the chap, why would you want to go out for a drink with another mans wife? if it is a work thing then fine, if it is a really good friend thing then I can understand when pals meet up before the rest of the crew arrive or if it is to arrange a surprise party or something for the husband, but if this is a social drink then I would steer clear of it.

    who instigated this? did she ask you or did you ask her?

    if a chap said to me he was going out with my wife for a drink, the least I would be is suspicious.

    seems strange
     
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  10. Miles Platting Irish Mancunian Gold Member

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    she said he would be ok about it, but not to tell him, just got me thinking
     
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  11. Spring Time Gold Member Gold Member

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    The least i would be is squeezing his balls:50:
     
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    It really down to what you doing with her after the drinks, since you're not gonna nail her, you should be fine
     
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  13. blackfish Screaming from beneath the waves...

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    aah, so you are Stan Collymore.......................
     
    blackfish, Mar 13, 2011
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  14. Buster Gold Member Gold Member

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    C'mon Wrigley, don't keep us in suspense with half a story, spill the beans, l've got to go to my bed soon or my mrs might start wanting to go for a social drink with someone. :icon_mrgreen:

    Have you thought she might want to nail you?
     
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    ALARM BELLS!
     
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    he'll be ok about it, but don't tell him, aye ok then.

    sounds like he would be decidedly not ok about it, if he would be ok then there's no need for secrecy.

    sounds like trouble to me.
     
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  17. blackfish Screaming from beneath the waves...

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    unless they have an open relationship? who knows?

    but by the sounds of it, you may not be thinking of "nailing her" but I get the impression she may want you to attend to her Lady Garden................
     
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  18. me.CelticBhoy88

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    Load of *

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    What a C*** for even thinking it, if it was ok you wouldn't be asking
     
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  19. Miles Platting Irish Mancunian Gold Member

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    Thanks for the confirmation,
     
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    surely its up to her. If you are friends with the husband then that complicates things but, if thats not the case, then you can absolve yourself of responsibility. If you dont want to "nail her" then whats your motive?
     
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