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Discussion in 'TalkCeltic Pub' started by CharlieMulgrini, Nov 18, 2016.

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  1. CharlieMulgrini

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    So...

    I have been in Germany for some time. Working in International Schools, teaching English.

    I kept a few jobs, lost a few. At the point in my new job, I don't feel comfortable about a future in this school. Told me girl about this last night. She was cold, difficult, negative and said NOTHING positive about my future chances, saying she didn't want to talk about it.

    Advice?
     
  2. Moussa10

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    chuck her
     
  3. Miles Platting Irish Mancunian Gold Member

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    Is she in Germany with you.
     
  4. CharlieMulgrini

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    Aye - we have two separate flats, but at the moment live together in just her flat (only for a month or so).
     
  5. Miles Platting Irish Mancunian Gold Member

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    Are both German or did you move over there,
     
  6. Aidan O’Shea

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    I'm in a similar (not that similar) boat. Basically seeing a girl up here on top of my girlfriend of 2 years in London. It's very confusing and complicated.

    Your girlfriend doesn't sound very supportive. I'd ask again and then ask what's bothering her. If she's still a *, tell her to * off.
     
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  7. PaulM1888 Moderator Moderator Gold Member

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    What a *.
     
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  8. Miles Platting Irish Mancunian Gold Member

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    I'm guessing that you moving in with her hasn't worked out how she expected, may be worth you moving back to your flat, you'll know in about a week if she is the right one for you,
    You seemed to be putting a lot of emphasis on your job, what's that about
     
  9. Aidan O’Shea

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    Thanks, man!
     
  10. Miles Platting Irish Mancunian Gold Member

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    You need to make a decision mate, if you want to be with one of them, if you ain't arsed about either of them carry on as you are.
     
  11. Aidan O’Shea

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    Yup, you're right. Tricky.
     
  12. celtic.Ghirl

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    Off a bridge for being an unsupportive bint :50:
     
  13. Mr. Slippyfist

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    so you're at it with another burd whilst your good lady is down in London?

    i hope you get caught and get yer baws well and truly booted.
     
  14. CharlieMulgrini

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    i am fae Glasgow, she's German
     
  15. CharlieMulgrini

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    That ain't cool man
     
  16. Callum McGregor The Captain Gold Member

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    Is there anything going on in her life that could cause her to act that way?
     
  17. McChiellini..

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  18. CharlieMulgrini

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    Aye - her family has lots of issues. Father has eye trouble, sister got pregnant against Docs orders and is now always unhealthy... from divorced parents, a lot on her plate with that right now
    That said, I don't want an unsupportive girlfriend. I'd rather be single than have that.
     
  19. Callum McGregor The Captain Gold Member

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    If you've both got problems outside of the relationship, you need to be mutually supportive of one another or it won't work out.
     
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  20. Aidan O’Shea

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    Problem solved :60:
     
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