I was just trying to help you understand racism isn't black and white. I think that the debate surrounding @Darnok's is one that is one worth having. It is certainly very different from the flippant throwaway remark like yours as it had a basis and a reasoning. I don't know what any of that has got to do with my coffee or * life, but of which are fine. I could not be more relaxed and I couldn't give a * if McGregor gets his * kicked in, although I assumed he didn't have one. Racism is bad, but you don't want to expand on the Ladybird version you have, which is fine, but if you don't want to engage in debates on subjects, don't make flippant remarks. By the way, trying to understand something is never pretentious.