I am Gaffa/ShaunyCeltic on Twitter - My Wife Died

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  1. Al Bootyerbaws

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    * bless you and your family pal. Keep your chin up.
     
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  2. Shauny Shauny Gold Member

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    Yeah where I live is where Dawn and I met, so support has been unreal to be honest.
    I have to have a carer in Daily to help me clean up and stuff. And regular meetings with bereavement teams etc.
    Most important the Girls astound me every day with their strength and ability to see past grief and look for fun and laughter. I realised only recently "I was doing the same thing"...Yeah, I was following their example...lol

    #HH
     
  3. Shauny Shauny Gold Member

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    WOW...Thanks a lot mate.
    I am not sure if they will ever want to go to a game again.
    Dawn had a plaque put up in the Hearts FC memorial Garden a few weeks ago, even going to visit that is a maybe just now. I think they might just actually hate Football stadiums? :39:
    Appreciate the offer and I hope I can ask one day and bring my Girls through and pray one day they see the green and white light....:60:
     
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  4. Shauny Shauny Gold Member

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    www.shaunynews.com

    I have been doing this since 2011 since I was diagnosed with Psychosis, Fibro, M.E, PTSD & Agoraphobia, I have always felt it helpful to just throw my emotions onto the Internet. Sadly due to Dr's and Opiates I came across as a *. :43: Dawn suggested I come off some drugs and I lost about 8 stone as well. She literally prepared me for this time of my life, ironically without her. The door to Dawn will never close, but a new one has to open...
    Good post mate #HH
     
  5. Shauny Shauny Gold Member

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    Thanks for all the comments peeps...
    I let the Girls read them all before a play date they have today.
    The Celtic Family is something else... #HH from #TAG3 :tongue1:
     
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  6. Wee Jamesy Kristoffer ahh yeahh Gold Member

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    Sorry to hear of you and your girls loss mate, much love to all of you. Stay strong big man, YNWA :shamrock:
     
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  7. HTG "I have an uncle who does Yoga"

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    Stay strong mate, i can't imagine what you're going through right now.
     
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    * sake Gaffa, I'm so sorry to hear that.

    I'm happy you're back (I think I was Wanyamasboaby - live near the gyle - when you were last here) and as far as I can remember, you have the same disability as my auntie (MS) which makes any hard situation you need to deal with even harder at times. Your children are adorable and I'm sure they'll have a lot of Dawn's qualities which will make you proud throughout your lifetime.

    All the best for you and your family mate and we're all here if you need us.
     
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  9. Shauny Shauny Gold Member

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    Cheers mate, yeah I remember you. Who was the other 'Wanyama' lad? ....Kinda typed a lot of crap maybe...
    I was in the Gyle shopping centre about a year ago and I bumped into a Celtic lad with his wee boy who said he lived local, were travelling to a European game away, small chance it was you ? lol....
    My Girls are like Mummy, my oldest is her spitting image, so kinda keeps her here more...
    Got to move on mate...Cheers #HH
     
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    Ma heart goes out to you and your 2 wee girls mate :49:
     
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    Wasn't me in the gyle mate but the other boy you remember (and the reason I changed my name) was Wanyama1967 - absolute roaster. I've not got my own Facebook page because of how much I hate it but I've got a fake one for iptv and stuff so I'll have a look at yours when I have more time and join up.

    Glad to hear it bud. Bet they look after you as much as you do them :84:.

    Oh and just so you remember the difference between me and that other wee * Wanyama1967 - I told you the trick about the toilet roll in the pan before taking a * :yeah:
     
  12. Shauny Shauny Gold Member

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    Remind me :56:
     
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    You used to hate the "plop" sound but always laughed when you heard it when others done it in public toilets or the likes..


    Toilet roll in the pan first before you sit down and Bob's your aunties husband.
     
  14. Shauny Shauny Gold Member

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    :56: I still hate that degrading PLOP sound...I, to this day, put toilet paper down first and it was you that planted that seed all along :56::57:
     
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    Sorry to hear about your woman.I send my regards.

    I seen your post in the mental health thread,i may have 2 of the conditions you mentioned undiagnosed,and another 2 that i have been diagnosed with.Thx for some good ideas.You have been through the wars and stil standing strong.Inspiring stuff for anyone thats struggling.U Certainley,Helped me today,its appreciated:50:
     
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  16. Shauny Shauny Gold Member

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    Seriously, reason I share so much is I know there are others out there maybe unable to share or just keep it all in. I noticed as a younger lad keeping it can lead to a bad place. More we name our feelings without caring what others think, we start to be surrounded by the same kinda people. Talk it over, then move on and have fun...
    DM me for any advice on medication, coping skills etc. Always happy to help/share...
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    Sorry to hear of your loss Shaun.

    They will be your rock and vice versa.
    * bless
     
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    Welcome back gaffa
     
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    * bless you :shamrock:
     
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