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I really feel for you mate, you are between a rock and a hard place but I feel that you have to make the hard decision and keep him out of the house. He has an addiction and for all the good in him, when he gets the craving, that good is overwhelmed with the desire to do what it takes to feed the habit. You have the rest of the family to look after, your other children have a good future but thats at risk with him around. Your wife needs to understand that risk.
You need to keep him out of the house. He needs help with his addiction, he needs to do that for the family or does he really care about you and the rest of the family? You need to confront him and ask him to seek help with the family's support to beat the addiction. You need to explain exactly what it's doing to you, your wife and the rest of the children. If there is any good left in him, he'll do what you ask, get the help, beat the addiction.
Thats my opinion on it but I strongly suggest that you go see a professional, get their advice on this and I hope things work out for you
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