[ellboy]

I feel for you it must be a terrible position to be in.

In all honesty though I think you need to speak to professional people who will have seen this all before. I am sure you are not the first family nor will you be the last to face such a dilemma, so there should be little stigma. The best thing is to seek help and not take all of this on your own shoulders.


P.S. Clagan has a great idea go on a long vacation preferably somewhere remote.